The world of your Year-3 kid is highly defined. things are right or they are wrong. Someone is either good, or they are bad. And if you happen to give someone else the larger slice--you will find out pretty quickly to which category you belong
Your Year-3 kid's brain is changing in some incredible ways. They are developing their ability to empathise, but they are still quick to put people (including themselves) into categories. They may be quick to let you know, for example, if they are "Athletic" or "not athletic".
You are entering the golden years of childhood. No one should have a favourite phase, but if you like this phase a whole lot, you aren't alone. Your kid is impressionable, eager, and excited about what you are excited about. If you think something sounds like fun, it won't take much to convince them it really is fun. (That may not be as easy in a few years).
Your Year-3 kid is keen for comparison. They love to compare movies, sports team, ice cream flavours.. and people. This tendency often leaves kids wondering just how well they measure up. The way you answer their questions, listen to their stories, and show up consistently will help you encourage their efforts.
You help them learn when you... GIVE THEM CONCRETE EXAMPLES
You capture their heart when you ... ENCOURAGE THEIR EFFORTS
You coach their moral abilities when you ... PLAY ON THEIR LEVEL.
As your Year-3 kid gains more independence, this is a great year to encourage personal devotional time. Help them develop a habit of spending time alone with God. But, don't let their faith become private; continue having other faith conversations as you go about your days together