Your three-year-old might suddenly become a self-proclaimed princess, pirate, or superhero. Your bedroom might turn out to be a train station, a castle, or both. But imagination may also turn scary. Fear may set in when, at a given moment, a monster can show up in the hallway, a snake can be under the bed, or a dragon can walk through the living room.
You motivate your preschooler best when you appeal to their desire to play. Whatever the task, turn it into a game; make it fun. When you're having fun, they'll have fun with you. And there is simply nothing more entertaining than the spontaneous laughter of a three-year-old.
Whether it's showcased in unrolling the toilet paper, pulling apart an older kid's LEGO, or the constant repetition of "Why? Why? Why?", your preschooler is eager to know how the world works. So when they ask you "Why?" for the second and third time, remember they're just looking for more of the knowledge they know you must have.
Life for your three-year-old can be confusing. It's okay to throw a ball, but not a rock. You can hug your friend, but not squeeze his neck. Your three-year-old is learning the rules for life and encountering some necessary discipline. The way you consistently meet their needs, engage their senses, and provide discipline will help them develop self-control.
You help them learn when you... ENGAGE THEIR SENSES.
You capture their heart when you ... CULTIVATE THEIT SELF-CONTROL.
You coach their moral abilities when you ... DISCIPLINE CONSISTENTLY.
Your three-year-old has many questions. Some might be about creation, heaven, church, and the Bible ... and some of their questions might already be hard to answer. Don't panic. Just like other topics, answer faith questions as simply as possible. If they need to ask more, they will.
(Talk about what your preschooler learns at church.)
Matthew 19:26
(Repeat simple Bible verses.)